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Pop quiz: “What’s the correct way to ask a woman out on a date?” Now the average man has been approaching women since around age 12 (and some of us m ... More. (News - Culture) Views: – I’ve been a little under the weather the past few days, so you’ll have to excuse me if my writing feels a little “dry.” It’s not that I’ve completely ... More. (News - Culture) Views: – Dear Fly Guy, I am in a dilemma right now. I recently met this guy who is nice, thoughtful, and seeking a relationship. He takes me out on great date ... More. (News - Culture) Views: – A man who's been in a relationship for six years finally builds up the courage to pop the question. Unfortunately his girlfriend said no. Instead of ... More. (News - Offbeat) Views: – Today, like most days, began with a familiar routine. I climbed out of bed, fell to my knees, and thanked God for another opportunity to better mysel ... More. (News - Culture) Views: – This is perhaps the easiest piece that I’ve ever had to write. It’s easy in the sense that expressing my love for you has never been difficult. You’r ... More. (News - Music) Views: – While I’m working on a new piece, I ran across an episode of “Cribs” that I wanted to revisit and share. While celebs and athletes try to impress you ... More. (News - Culture) Views: – �I love you with all my heart,� she told me through a steady stream of tears. �And there�s nothing that I�d rather do than spend the rest of my life ... More. (News - Culture) Views: – You are simply beautiful. Point blank … period. As I lay awake last night, wishing you were by my side, all I could think about was how truly wonderf ... More. (News - Music) Views: – My father’s influence on my development as a man has been profound. The funny thing about that is I never realized it … well, not until just now. Whe ... More. (News - Entertainment) Views: – Last week was National Unmarried and Singles Week. I've spent a lot of time admitting all of the stupid things I've done that have left me single. ... More. (News - Culture) Views: – I’ve often wondered why I met you. And I don’t mean that in a disrespectful way, so hear me out before you view this as an attack. It’s just that … w ... More. (News - Culture) Views: – I knew it was serious when she called me by my real name. “D, I need to talk to you.” I dropped my pen, looked over, and tried to read her expression ... More. (News - Culture) Views: – In a perfect world, a man could openly express any of the following sentiments to his special lady without fear of break up or bodily injury: “Baby, ... More. (News - Culture) Views: – “All I want is a man that’s real.” As the words left her mouth, it was almost as if I could hear a chorus of women standing behind her, ready to take ... More. (News - Culture) Views: – I can’t begin to tell you how many times I’ve heard women say, “Girl, I’ve got to make sure he knows what he’s doing in the bed before I can commit. ... More. (News - Culture) Views: – Dear Fly Guy, I have a situation. Here goes: I have genital herpes, and have had it for the last 13 years. I am on daily suppression medication and g ... More. (News - Culture) Views: – Dear Fly Guy: Do you believe in love at first sight? Well, I met my current boyfriend two days ago, and from the moment we saw each other, I knew he ... More. (News - Culture) Views: – One of my mother’s favorite TV shows used to be Bill Cosby’s “Kids Say the Darndest Things.” I can still remember how the off-the-wall comments by th ... More. (News - Culture) Views: – Closing is the fine art of finishing what you�ve started. You meet a girl, you charm her up, then you close the deal. Taking her home with you, going ... More. (News - Culture) Views: – I need someone out there to really open up their heart and hear me out. I’m not sure who this is supposed to help, but I wouldn’t be me if I kept thi ... More. (News - Culture) Views: – It�s amazing how easy it is for us to point out the faults in others. And judging from the progression of yesterday�s discussion, I think we all (or ... More. (News - Culture) Views: – Every man has heard the “hell hath no fury” warning upon entering the adult dating world. But I don’t think any of us imagined that “fury” being mani ... More. (News - Culture) Views: – I looked up into the sky today and watched the clouds casually float by. With every passing cumulus, cirrus and stratus formation, my heart became ac ... More. (News - Culture) Views: – I could spin the love and relationship wheel, and whatever it landed on, I’m sure the topic would be something that is both timely and sorely needed ... More. (News - Culture) Views: – Every night that it rains, I pull out my pen and pad and start writing to you. I’m still not sure what it is about the rain that prompts this respons ... More. (News - Culture) Views: – “Say it again baby.” Privately, that’s what goes on in the mind of a man when a woman says just the right thing. And whether you know it or not, ther ... More. (News - Culture) Views: – Part of me envies the ability of others who express themselves on levels that I have yet to achieve. That�s why the �Love Quotable� installments are ... More. (News - Entertainment) Views: – After endless amounts of debate, and over 500 entries, we finally have our Fly Guy summer love grand champion. Our winner is Ashley Gillespie, who ha ... More. (News - Culture) Views: – I ran across this video of Karrine Steffans promoting her new book “The Vixen Manual: How to Find, Seduce and Keep the Man You Want.” During the inte ... More. (News - Entertainment) Views: – I found an interesting female perspective detailing six reasons that your woman may be on the verge of cheating. It’s worth the read, and hey, since ... More. (News - Culture) Views: – It’s been close to three weeks since I’ve expressed myself through written word. During that period, I’ve received my fair share of people all asking ... More. (News - Entertainment) Views: – What’s Up Fly Guy, I notice that you feature music a lot on your site, so I’m hoping that you can help me. My wife and I have been together for about ... More. (News - Music) Views: – I can’t help but be amused by an article I just read on CNN. Not because the information found in it is funny … no, that’s not it. Instead, my laughs ... More. (News - Culture) Views: – It’s been a while since I’ve indulged in a one-night stand. Truth be told, when I started hearing about flesh-eating STD’s capable of devouring your ... More. (News - Culture) Views: – **Fly Intro: Here’s a guest feature from a talented writer, Darryl James, who delves into the absentee father debate which continues to rage on withi ... More. (News - Culture) Views: – Hey Fly Guy ... I have a question for you. I'm in a relationship with a great guy, and I love him to death. But he has an issue with me. His issue i ... More. (News - Culture) Views: – I’m not sure when you’re going to read this. But whenever your eyes meet the words currently pouring from my heart, my sincerest hope is that you fee ... More. (News - Entertainment) Views: – I still think of her sometimes. Her name was Renee. And everything about her was just … well, perfect. Her smile, her sense of humor, her birthmark t ... More. (News - Culture) Views: – I ran across this feature on the rules of rebounding that I wanted to share. As always, I encourage you to read, comment and share with a friend. Oh, ... More. (News - Culture) Views: – My brother sent me this video clip of a guy in church who took the whole “God loves a cheerful giver” expression to a whole new level. I wonder if Na ... More. (News - Culture) Views: – She was special. At least that’s what I initially thought. She was beautiful, smart, funny—basically everything that I could have ever hoped for in a ... More. (News - Entertainment) Views: – Ok, let me lay out the scenario for you. The love of your life has just been presented the career opportunity of a lifetime. The only problem is that ... More. (News - Music) Views: – Hey Fly Guy, I wanted to know how would you go about asking out a person of the same sex. I have a coworker who is female and I swear she is one of t ... More. (News - Culture) Views: – Word on the street is that she’s mad at you again. At this point, you probably have a better chance at degreasing Jermaine Jackson, than you do at ga ... More. (News - Entertainment) Views: – Being a love expert is certainly not as easy as it may appear. So in an effort to keep up with the Dr. Phil’s of the world, I decided to hire a love ... More. (News - Offbeat) Views: – Pop quiz. What�s the safest way to ensure a healthy, happy relationship? While I can�t audibly hear your response, I�m 98.7 percent sure that your an ... More. (News - Culture) Views: – Wanted to share one more thing with you before the day ended. This is actually a post from a site (Just a Guy Thing) that I check out from time to ti ... More. (News - Culture) Views: – It’s time to officially clear the air. There seems to be this common misconception, which suggests that men have lower standards when choosing a mate ... More. (News - Culture) Views: – We all come from different backgrounds, which I’ve come to both understand and appreciate. It’s those same differences that make this world so great, ... More. (News - Culture) Views: – I’ve always done my best to support dope writers, and this moment is no different. Our featured writer for today has crafted a very honest response t ... More. (News - Culture) Views: – You’d be hard pressed to find someone who in 2011 remains unaffected by the single parent phenomenon. Whether it’s you, your mother, your sister or a ... More. (News - Culture) Views: – There’s a common misconception that currently exists. It goes a little something like this. “Now that I’m in love, I can say whatever I want.” In the ... More. (News - Culture) Views: – My five-year-old cousin Mara asked me what I wanted for Christmas. I didn�t know. Well after she indignantly walked away when I couldn�t come up with ... More. (News - Culture) Views: – Dear Fly Guy, As the title states we are two best friends in distress. Both of us are smart, fly, gorgeous college students in Atlanta, Georgia where ... More. (News - Entertainment) Views: – Spotted on Twitter: “Blackberries, iPhones and Twitter killed the dating world. R.I.P.” This statement coming from The Fly Guy himself, made me think ... More. (News - Culture) Views: – I was scrolling through my iPod this morning and stumbled across Jodeci’s “Cry For You.” Now I have to admit, when the song first came out, I thought ... More. (News - Culture) Views: – It’s freezing outside, which mean it’s the perfect time to master the stay-at-home date. So make this a Friday night to remember by using this step-b ... More. (News - Culture) Views: – My heart aches … And my soul remains despondent …The rest of me just resembles a former shell of itself—a now unfortunate collection of cursed molecu ... More. (News - Entertainment) Views: – Lord, grant me the strength to always honor my gift of self-expression. But if I ever fall short and it’s taken away, I pray that I’m still able to l ... More. (News - Culture) Views: – You've been racking your brain trying to determine if this guy is interested in you. It's time you got an answer. ... More. (News - Offbeat) Views: – Dear Fly Guy ... I want to thank you for all of the help you’ve offered me over the past couple of years. I’ve noticed that the people on your site a ... More. (News - Culture) Views: – I was sent an email this morning that really struck a chord with me. In it, the author shared a litany of lessons that he/she had gathered along life ... More. (News - Entertainment) Views: – Dear Fly Guy, I’m sick of my husband. He has mental issues, and I’m tired of appeasing him just to keep him calm. He doesn’t know how to act in publi ... More. (News - Culture) Views:
Hi Fly Guy, I need some insight. I’m just coming out of a 2 ½ year relationship with my high school sweetheart. I broke up with him at the beginning ... More. (News - Culture) Views: – I typically have my finger on the pulse of all things related to love and relationships, but apparently I’ve dropped the ball in this instance. On se ... More. (News - Entertainment) Views: – Hi Fly Guy, My boyfriend and I have been together for 2 years. About 4 months ago, I moved to a different state to be with him and we moved in togeth ... More. (News - Entertainment) Views: – Cheaters … Side chicks … Tiger Woods. I couldn’t have mapped out a recent conversation with Nelly any better. When we first sat down, our discussion ... More. (News - Entertainment) Views: – “Blessed quietness … holy quietness … what assurance, in my soul.” I can still hear my mother and grandmother singing that song back in the day when ... More. (News - Culture) Views: – For as much as I write about love and relationships, I still have so much to learn. Love is just one of those things that I’ll probably never get a f ... More. (News - Entertainment) Views: – Pop Quiz. Who cheats more: Men or Women? While I have my own very strong views on the subject, I decided to ask a few of my friends to gain their per ... More. (All Videos) Views: – Let�s switch roles for a moment because I really need to discuss something with you. (Yeah, I�m stepping out of Fly Guy mode for just a sec.) You see ... More. (News - Culture) Views: – I’m on the road visiting my brother, but I did want to take a moment to share a quick weekend dating tip for the fellas. ... More. (News - Culture) Views: – Yesterday, I was on the set of BET’s new show “Pay It Off” and I caught up with my good friend comedian/actress Kim Cole. As always, we started talki ... More. (News - Culture) Views: – Dear Fly Guy, My boyfriend and I have been dating for 2 ½ years. We’ve had our ups and downs with some trust issues on my part from the past. Well th ... More. (News - Culture) Views: – Dear Fly Guy, I’ve been following your work for quite some time, and I have to give you props on discussing relationships in an unbiased way. When th ... More. (News - Culture) Views: – I’m exhausted. After months of begging, pleading, compromising, bending over backwards, and over compensating, I’m officially done. It’s become abund ... More. (News - Culture) Views: – Time to take things up a notch with the following feature by writer Terry Shropshire. Apparently, Terry got tired of the double standard that he witn ... More. (News - Culture) Views: – It’s been a while since I’ve felt compelled to write a love letter to my future wife. But as fate would have it, something happened to change my posi ... More. (News - Culture) Views: – The Fly Guy breaks down the 7 Relationship Mistakes That Men Make. This is a must read. ... More. (News - Offbeat) Views: – For a long time, I was a con artist. But it had nothing to do with me deceiving my loved ones or even preying on unsuspecting strangers. Instead, it ... More. (News - Culture) Views: – Dear Fly Guy, I�ve gotten myself trapped between a rock and a hard place. I think I have fallen in love with my best friend of 5 years. We recently r ... More. (News - Entertainment) Views: – Dear Fly Guy,I am 20 years old and still a virgin. I am just wondering why this fact is a turnoff to some guys. Is it a bad thing that I’ve kept it t ... More. (News - Culture) Views: – “I can’t believe she just said that!” That’s precisely what runs through a guy’s mind when he’s forced to participate in what he deems as inappropria ... More. (News - Entertainment) Views: – The (Not So) Fly Scenario: Things were going so well. Or so I thought. But if that were really the case, then I wouldn’t have this sharp, agonizing ... More. (News - Culture) Views: – Dear Fly Guy, I have a serious problem. I thought I found Mr. Right, but recently discovered he has bad credit!!! I don’t want to seem materialistic, ... More. (News - Culture) Views: – Can we all agree that communication is the key to any successful relationship? (I can hear the murmurs in the back of the room, and I hear you … you ... More. (News - Culture) Views:
If there’s one thing that my faith has taught me, it’s the importance of trust—even when there’s nothing tangible to visibly support that level of tr ... More. (News - Culture) Views: – Over the past few years, I’ve attempted to accurately define the true meaning of love. And while I’ve gotten close to nailing it a time or two, I don ... More. (News - Culture) Views: – I had a strange relationship with my ex, which eventually came to an end. After initially attempting to be civil, I finally got to the point where I ... More. (News - Offbeat) Views: – Need raw & honest advice on love & sex as it relates to you??? ... More. (News - Offbeat) Views: – Dear Fly Guy, When I was 12 years old, I was molested by two family members. I have since forgiven them, but I think it has affected the way I let me ... More. (News - Culture) Views: – I think it’s time for me to lay my cards on the table. I’m not the richest of men—at least not yet. And I don’t push an elegant whip capable of causi ... More. (News - Entertainment) Views: – Before we officially close the chapter on this Sunday, I wanted to share something that has been on my heart for the past few days. You know, it’s ea ... More. (News - Culture) Views: – Let me get straight to the point. Breaking up sucks—especially when you can’t get the other person out of your system. To add insult to injury, your ... More. (News - Culture) Views: – If my words prove incapable of articulating my heart’s appreciation for you, then let the words of others inspire a new sense of understanding of jus ... More. (News - Culture) Views: – It’s Friday, and that means it’s time to create an air of love, passion and understanding to officially kick start our weekend. How do we do that? Si ... More. (News - Music) Views: – I’ll be the first one to admit this shortcoming: break ups make me uneasy. There’s just something about the giving and receiving of bad relationship ... More. (News - Culture) Views: – I wanted to share my morning inspiration with the sincere hope that it helps you as much as it did me. Some of you may find yourselves stuck in seemi ... More. (News - Culture) Views: – Dear Fly Guy, I broke up with my boyfriend about 6 months ago. How long do you think you should wait before jumping into another relationship? I�m st ... More. (News - Culture) Views: – I’ve rehearsed this conversation over a thousand times in my head, and still don’t know where to begin. As easy as it was for me to fall in love with ... More. (News - Culture) Views: – Directly following the passing of Steve McNair, there were so many relationship questions that needed to be addressed. Wait… let me backtrack and exp ... More. (News - Culture) Views: – When I saw this piece on domestic abuse, I knew it had to be shared with our Fly community. Now I know that we’ve covered this subject before, but I ... More. (News - Culture) Views: – Dear Beyonce, There are a few things that I need to get off my chest, and I figured the best way to express them in an organized manner was to write ... More. (News - Entertainment) Views: – Never let life consume you to the point where you fail to seize any and every opportunity to express thankfulness and appreciation for the special pe ... More. (News - Music) Views: – The following is a piece of much-needed ammunition for the fellas. Tired of getting sucked into tough conversations with your significant other? Well ... More. (News - Entertainment) Views: – There are a lot of things that I hate in this world. Politics. Crime, Racism, VH1 Reunion shows … my life would literally and figuratively be so much ... More. (News - Culture) Views: – A close friend was recently faced with a dating disaster. In fact, when he told me the story, it was probably one of the few times in my life where I ... More. (News - Culture) Views:
It�s morning, and the memories of last night haven�t come into focus quite yet. The ceiling is the first thing that I see as my eyes open, and it sti ... More. (News - Entertainment) Views: – I’ve made mistakes in my past. I’ve admittedly told a few lies. I’ve even broken my fair share of hearts. So if you wake up today and decide that you ... More. (News - Culture) Views: – I had an interesting conversation with one of my boys yesterday. But instead of translating his sentiments, I figured I’d just give you the unfiltere ... More. (News - Culture) Views: –
It’s Friday, and let’s be honest … you’re really not doing any work right now. So I figured the best way to help you melt the rest of your day away w ... More. (All Videos) Views: – “What do you want in a woman?” I knew the question was coming, and I still wasn’t prepared to answer it. It just felt like no matter what my response ... More. (News - Entertainment) Views: – I didn’t want to be the person to make this announcement, but it needs to be addressed … today. By now, I’m sure you’ve either seen or read about the ... More. (News - Entertainment) Views: – Guys ask me this question all the time: “How do you know if she’s the one?” Instead of that inquiry, the real question that I wish they would ask is, ... More. (News - Entertainment) Views: – I can’t lie … over the course of my life, I’ve experienced my fair share of pregnancy scares. It didn’t matter if it was a long-time girlfriend, or t ... More. (News - Entertainment) Views: – How many of us have ever stared true love right in the face, only to inexplicably allow it to pass us by? Though unfortunate, it happens more often t ... More. (News - Business) Views: – Dear Fly Guy...I’m almost at the point where I feel like giving up on dating all together and becoming celibate. I’m a single mother and I have my li ... More. (News - Culture) Views: –
I’ve returned with another public service announcement. In case you missed the alarming report on CNN, then let me fill you in on the details. Appare ... More. (All Videos) Views: – While everyone seems to enjoy discussing Lauren London’s future as baby mama #_____to Lil Wayne (we’re still trying to confirm the official number), ... More. (News - Entertainment) Views: – When I think about the definition of love in its purest form, my mind often drifts to Virtue’s “Nothing Ever Mattered.” Pay close attention to the ly ... More. (News - Culture) Views: – “Love is built on two pillars that best define what it is. Those are patience and kindness. All other characteristics of love are extensions of these ... More. (News - Culture) Views: – Hey Fly Guy, I have more of a comment than a question. I just don’t understand why some women think that men want to settle down with someone who act ... More. (News - Culture) Views: – Dear Fly Guy, I need some relationship advice. Most women give men a hard time when it comes to committing to them, but I’m the exact opposite. When ... More. (News - Culture) Views: – I guess I should just come right and say it. I want to spend the rest of my life with you. I know this may not be the proper time or place, but I cou ... More. (News - Culture) Views: – There are but three certainties in life. Death, taxes, and John McCain�s inability to give a high five. While those three occurrences are virtually m ... More. (News - Culture) Views: – So here’s the scenario. You’ve been waiting your whole life to meet that special someone, and as fate would have it, you finally meet them. As the ... More. (News - Entertainment) Views: – This pursuit to be a love expert is an ongoing journey for me, so I appreciate you accepting me in this unfinished state. Sometimes though, I wonder ... More. (News - Culture) Views: – Here’s a video that I thought the group would enjoy. Equal parts funny and real, it’s good to hear a dude talk about the type of love the he wants in ... More. (News - Culture) Views: – A wise man once said, “Tell your girlfriend everything about your past to avoid any drama.” Of course, he said this shortly before she broke up with ... More. (News - Culture) Views: – How do I break the news to you? Even though we don’t talk like we used to, we still never officially parted ways. In many ways, we just drifted apart ... More. (News - Business) Views: – Loneliness…It’s an emotion that’s never really welcomed, but sometimes needed. Moments in life arise where it’s actually healthy to experience the em ... More. (News - Entertainment) Views: – I’ve had my fair share of failed moments when it comes to gaining the attention and affection of a young lady. But through all of my forays into the ... More. (News - Culture) Views: – I’m not going to bore you with the three millionth review of Usher’s latest album, “Here I Stand.” Instead, I thought I’d share with you a few of my ... More. (News - Music) Views: – What are you willing to do for love? That’s a question that doesn’t get asked as much as it probably should. Why you may ask? Well for starters, many ... More. (News - Music) Views: – Hi Fly Guy! I am new to your website, but I want to say that the few topics I have read have been very interesting. I agree with you on so many level ... More. (News - Entertainment) Views: – Before I begin, I have to admit that I’m not entirely sure of what I want to accomplish by writing this. On the one hand, a small part of me wants to ... More. (News - Culture) Views: – In our last entry, a male friend expressed his frustration of constantly hearing women lament the lack of good men. In his opinion, the women who usu ... More. (News - Culture) Views: – It’s Friday, and let’s be honest … you’re really not doing any work right now. So I figured the best way to help you melt the rest of your day away w ... More. (News - Culture) Views: – I received an email this morning that I wanted to share with the group. Now I’m not going to really add too much of my own opinion here as the letter ... More. (News - Entertainment) Views: – Discussing difficult topics has never given me any personal satisfaction. In fact, I probably enjoy it about as much as I like eating soggy Fruity Pe ... More. (News - Entertainment) Views: – To be quite honest, a part of me feels like I’m selling out the brotherhood by sharing this post. Even though I have a track record that’s fair and b ... More. (News - Entertainment) Views: – We’ve all been guilty of losing control with the one we love. And as much as I’ve searched for an explanation as to why this feeling randomly comes a ... More. (News - Offbeat) Views: – Shortly after R&B; super group Jodeci split up to focus on other endeavors, brothers K-Ci and Jo Jo released what is still (at least in my opinion) on ... More. (News - Culture) Views: – With the new Fly Guy website launching soon, I figured I’d take a moment to share some of the past moments you may have missed. It’s always good to r ... More. (News - Culture) Views:
Have you ever wondered how that special woman feels after you lean in for that first kiss? Well if you’re anything like me, you’re hoping that firecr ... More. (News - Culture) Views: – Dear Fly Guy, I need help with trusting my wife. I know that she loves me and regards me as the man of her dreams, but every time we get around other ... More. (News - Culture) Views: – Today’s piece focuses on a question consistently asked, but rarely answered in a meaningful way: “Do men know how to love?” I haven’t even started ye ... More. (News - Culture) Views: – It’s time to revisit last week’s scenario: You just woke up and found yourself in bed with someone other than your significant other. Having realized ... More. (News - Culture) Views: – Attention men: Now you may not want to hear this, but there are women out here currently faking the funk with you. And no, I’m not talking about orga ... More. (News - Culture) Views: – If a guy meets someone who he really likes, is it possible that he will lose interest if she has too much going on in her life? I ask because many me ... More. (News - Culture) Views: – So here�s the scenario. There is this guy that you�ve had your eye on for quite some time. You think he�s interested in you, but he�s yet to make any ... More. (News - Culture) Views: – So here is your official fly question for the month of May: What is your definition of summer love? Once you develop an answer, email me at flyguychr ... More. (News - Culture) Views: – I see you … I've actually been watching you for quite some time now. And from where I'm sitting, I still get blown away by the way you live, move a ... More. (News - Culture) Views: – How does one truly measure the depth of love? For some, the best indicator can be found in how much they miss a person when they’re gone. Are they an ... More. (News - Culture) Views: – In a recent piece, I detailed 3 things that you should keep to yourself in the early stages of dating. After the piece was published, there seemed to ... More. (News - Culture) Views: – Can the differences between you and your loved one actually help or hurt your relationship? Now before you answer, I’m not talking about trivial diff ... More. (News - Culture) Views: – I will never lose sight of the power of love. Nor will I ever forsake the gift of expression. That’s why I get excited when it’s time to unveil anoth ... More. (News - Entertainment) Views: – Sixth grade will always have a special place in my heart. Outside of me sprouting my first signs of facial hair, it also marked the year of my first ... More. (News - Offbeat) Views: – I don’t know what you want me to do. I’m sorry that your feelings are hurt right now, but I told you not to fall in love with me. I thought it was ve ... More. (News - Music) Views: – She yelled. She pouted. She cried. She yelled some more. She even said that I was insensitive, and suggested that maybe I wasn't my mother's child. ... More. (News - Culture) Views: – The walls were closing in on me last night as I diligently worked to finish my relationship manifesto (trust me people; this will be a must-read when ... More. (News - Culture) Views: – Attention men: Allow me to shed some light on how NOT to approach a woman. Listen to the following audio clip, and let the contents sink in. A surefi ... More. (News - Culture) Views: – I found an interesting piece that puts complaining, unhappily single women on blast. Read the piece; and if you fit the description, you might want t ... More. (News - Culture) Views: – Dear Fly Guy, I have a problem which may or may not be common. On the inside, I’m a sweet, give-until-I-have-no-more, take care of you, type of perso ... More. (News - Entertainment) Views: – Heartbreak comes in many forms. And while they’re all painful, the most tragic of them all is the type that’s self-inflicted. To have found true love ... More. (News - Music) Views: – I was about 12 years-old when I first heard a phrase that has followed me well into adulthood. “Hell hath no fury like a woman scorned.” At the time, ... More. (News - Entertainment) Views: – I get asked all the time to share my wants and needs when it comes to a woman. Up until this point, I’ve typically declined such a request (I’ve neve ... More. (News - Entertainment) Views: – I just received an email which contained a video clip of a news reporter in Augusta, GA doing a special report on school violence. At the first, the ... More. (All Videos) Views: – It’s hard for me to articulate the following, but I’ll give it a shot. I met this young lady, who had the potential to one day be Mrs. Fly Guy. She w ... More. (News - Entertainment) Views: – There’s really no shortage of qualities that I find desirable in a woman. But the good people over at wanted to know what men love about ... More. (News - Culture) Views: – Dear Fly Guy, I just read your article, Five Types of Women Men Hate, and I have a question about Ms. “Stick in the Mud.” I am married and I am frien ... More. (News - Culture) Views:
Attention ladies and gentlemen, I have a public service announcement. As much as we pretend like the physical side of our relationship is less import ... More. (News - Culture) Views: – If communication is the key to happiness, then the ability to have tough conversations with your significant other may be the act that turns the key ... More. (News - Culture) Views: – I recently hung out with actor/comedian Marlon Wayans in Los Angeles, as we worked to produce a cover shoot for Rolling Out Magazine. Towards the end ... More. (News - Entertainment) Views: – There are certain aspects of today’s hip-hop and R&B; songs that I absolutely detest. Primarily, it’s the part that encourages men to refrain from eng ... More. (News - Culture) Views: – Here’s the scenario: You’ve been dating this person for quite a while now, and things are going great. You’ve tried your best to take things one day ... More. (News - Culture) Views: – Things haven't been the same between us for quite some time. And while I managed to find fault in everything that you did, the true source of our pr ... More. (News - Culture) Views: – Dear Misguided Men, I need you to do me a favor. I need you all to stop. Now before I elaborate on exactly what that entails, I’d like to share some ... More. (News - Culture) Views: – It’s no secret that people are getting married later these days than in previous generations, and in this culture of hook-ups and “modern female dati ... More. (News - Culture) Views: – Frustration. Confusion. Loneliness. Hurt. Any of these sound familiar? They have all met us at some point on our journey to finding a fulfilling love ... More. (News - Culture) Views: – It’s time to once again honor those brave souls who have fearlessly mastered the art of self-expression, which is no easy task. It’s difficult, it le ... More. (News - Culture) Views: – She irritates me. And I’m sure there’s more than a few people out there who don’t appreciate this type of honesty. But just to be clear, this has not ... More. (News - Culture) Views: – I’m not a fan of divorce—and I probably never will be. But I have to admit that I found a small bit of joy after reading the following divorce letter ... More. (News - Entertainment) Views: – It’s a beautiful day, which means it’s also a beautiful opportunity to learn more about the main thing that binds us together on this website—our des ... More. (News - Culture) Views: – Before I begin my upcoming series on the psychology of men and women as it pertains to dating and relationships, I thought I’d share this hilarious p ... More. (News - Entertainment) Views: – It seems like we’ve been talking about heartbreak an awful lot lately. That needs to stop. So for this edition of audio love, we’ll give heartbreak i ... More. (News - Music) Views: – Dear Fly Guy, When is it appropriate for a woman to pay for a date? We seem to be having a disagreement about this with the men in my office. Thanks ... More. (News - Culture) Views: – The emails keep pouring in from male readers longing to know the answer to the following universal mystery… “What do women like?” And while many of m ... More. (News - Culture) Views: – I’m an imperfect human being.I’m reminded of this each day just by the smallest of missteps that I make. For the most part, these aren’t earth-shatt ... More. (News - Culture) Views: – “Wow, they’re pretty fly. I wonder if I can get to know them without my coworkers getting in my business.” Sound familiar? Well it should, as eight m ... More. (News - Culture) Views: – The true beauty of love is found in the infinite amount of ways it can be expressed. That’s why I always find joy in sharing Love Quotables, my ongoi ... More. (News - Culture) Views: – **I thoroughly enjoyed reading this list, so I though I’d share it with you. Take note, and if you are currently suffering from any of these mental b ... More. (News - Culture) Views: – So here’s the scenario: The love of your life is going away, never to be seen or heard from again. All you have is this one final moment to express h ... More. (News - Offbeat) Views: – Dear Fly Guy,I’m in a bad situation with this woman. She really likes me, but has a boyfriend that she’s been with for a while now. She expects me to ... More. (News - Entertainment) Views: – We now interrupt your regularly scheduled Fly Guy programming to say congratulations to my brother on his recent wedding. I don’t think I’ve ever pos ... More. (News - Culture) Views: – F*ck her? F*ck him? Honestly that’s how some of you feel right now about that “special” person in your life. But instead of me giving you words of wi ... More. (News - Entertainment) Views: – Dear Fly Guy, This is embarrassing to admit, but I’m having a real hard time meeting new women. It isn’t because I’m unattractive either; I just thin ... More. (News - Culture) Views: – I was initially overwhelmed … taken aback by a love that seemed so unreal. Was this the blessing I had patiently been waiting for? Was she the final ... More. (News - Culture) Views: – By now, I’m sure you’ve had your fill of the endless amounts of Valentine’s Day talk. To be perfectly honest with you, I have too (ironic, I know.) I ... More. (News - Entertainment) Views: – Relationships and commitment often mean changes for men in many ways. While some of the easier changes can bring you joy and happiness (more sex, mor ... More. (News - Entertainment) Views: – Word on the street is that she’s mad at you again. At this point, you probably have a better chance at convincing the Olsen twins to eat seconds, tha ... More. (News - Music) Views: – My body, your body, his body, her body � Is that what it all comes down to? If you ask the question, �What are the most important aspects of a potent ... More. (News - Culture) Views: – Dear Fly Guy, There is this guy who has been chasing me for years, and refuses to understand that I'm not interested. He calls me incessantly and is ... More. (News - Culture) Views: – I was watching this episode of “Martin” that made me question my ability to love someone unconditionally. In this episode, Martin was headed to his 1 ... More. (News - Culture) Views: – Dear Fly Guy, Okay so, there’s this guy that I had a crush on for over a decade. We always stayed in contact though both of us were in separate relat ... More. (News - Culture) Views: – What’s Up Fly Guy, I have read your articles and I’m an avid reader. I must say that coming to your website has been really interesting. Here is my s ... More. (News - Culture) Views: – No one wants to be cheated on … and I mean no one. In fact, I can’t think of a single thing more painful than discovering that your loved one is inti ... More. (News - Business) Views: – Attention men: As you prepare for the long holiday weekend, allow me to shed some light on how NOT to approach a woman. Listen to the following audio ... More. (News - Business) Views: – Dear Fly Guy, I've been reading your articles and they have all been very helpful. I do have a question for you though. Should I find it suspicious ... More. (News - Culture) Views: – I’ve said it once, and I’ll continue to say it. There’s no better way to get my motor running than meeting a woman capable of expressing herself to m ... More. (News - Culture) Views: – When we first met, I immediately knew that you would always be an important part of life. But now … I’m not so sure. Your behavior lately is such tha ... More. (News - Culture) Views: – “I can’t take it any more.” That’s usually the last thought that runs through someone’s mind right before they decide to officially end a relationshi ... More. (News - Culture) Views: – After running across this next feature, I felt it deserved some serious burn here at FGC. For every single woman that’s forced to endure the insensit ... More. (News - Culture) Views: – Here’s the scenario: You woke up this morning lying next to someone other than your significant other. Now your first thoughts were probably somewher ... More. (News - Culture) Views: – Last night, I aimlessly walked the streets of Amsterdam with no set destination in mind. Now, it wasn’t like I didn’t have anywhere to go … in fact, ... More. (News - Culture) Views: – I know I’ve made mistakes in the past, but that has nothing to do with the here and now. At this very moment, all I can think about is how I need you ... More. (News - Music) Views: – In my mind I wondered, �Am I moving too fast? Do I know enough about this woman to take the plunge into commitment?� It was a valid question since fa ... More. (News - Culture) Views: – Here’s a little afternoon Fly Poetry to help you digest your lunch. Feel free to send this to your significant other and act like they inspired this. ... More. (News - Culture) Views: – Honest moments of self-expression … I used to be afraid of those. Like most men, the idea of being vulnerable was not something that I was very comfo ... More. (News - Culture) Views: – I know you weren’t expecting this from me today, but I really need to say this. We’ve been friends for a while now, and I’ve been here each and every ... More. (News - Culture) Views: – I decided to write down a few of my thoughts that I needed to share with the future Mrs. Fly Guy. Bear with us as we have this all too important conv ... More. (News - Culture) Views: – My recent admission that I was headed on a trip to the Dominican Republic prompted a familiar refrain among black women. “Why are you going over ther ... More. (News - Culture) Views: – I love my mom … I promise I do. But every time I give her a call, she always seems to steer the conversation towards me not being married with kids. ... More. (News - Entertainment) Views: –
So I recently went on this date, and things were pretty cool. She was beautiful, smart, funny; basically all of the things you’d initially hope for w ... More. (All Videos) Views: – I ran across two pieces that I wanted to share. It�s been a while since I�ve featured any poetry on the site, but when I read the following, they rem ... More. (News - Offbeat) Views: – Week Two of my Summer Love contest with Roc4life and Rocawear has come and gone, and I'm happy to announce that we have a winner. Here is the winnin ... More. (News - Culture) Views: – I had a conversation yesterday that really got me thinking about my ability to love a woman completely. But instead of writing down the words, I want ... More. (News - Culture) Views: – Attention wives: If you’re looking for a way to convince your husband it’s time to start a family, then I think I’ve found a new strategy for you. Cl ... More. (News - Entertainment) Views: – I’ve often wondered how far someone would go to gain forgiveness after cheating. Well, a man in Virginia tested the scope of my thinking on the subje ... More. (News - Culture) Views: – Hi Fly Guy, I’m currently pregnant and the father of the child is my ex-boyfriend. I’ve since moved on, and my new boyfriend says he doesn’t care abo ... More. (News - Culture) Views: – One Man’s Confession: I’ve been sitting here for the past few hours, stuck in this same spot, trying to arrive at an answer to this one pressing ques ... More. (News - Culture) Views: – I was recently stopped in the grocery store by a male reader who recognized me from some of my old Fly Guy videos. After briefly exchanging pleasantr ... More. (News - Offbeat) Views: – So here's the scenario: You meet a woman, think she's wonderful, and subsequently work to pursue something meaningful with her. And by all accounts ... More. (News - Culture) Views: – I’m bruised. I’m bloodied. I’m battered. And I know that our outcome appears bleak, but I’m far from deterred. I still love you … that’s just a reali ... More. (News - Culture) Views: – If you’ve been following me for a while, then you know that I’ve featured Sara Bareilles’ “Gravity” as a past Fly Lyrics selection. But even now, the ... More. (News - Music) Views: – If you’ve been following my daily Fly musings, then you’re well aware of my position on the role of social networking in relationships. Apparently I ... More. (News - Entertainment) Views: – Since Mondays are usually so hectic for us all, I felt the need to program in a much-needed break—a moment for you to breathe, take a load off, and r ... More. (News - Entertainment) Views: – Dear Fly Guy, I’m sure you’ve heard this same question a million times before, but I need you to answer it for me. I’m a single, successful woman and ... More. (News - Culture) Views: – Hey, I have a question … are you single?” The question, which came in the form of a late night phone call, was asked by a female friend who always ha ... More. (News - Entertainment) Views: – In my line of work, I’ve been fortunate to meet so many amazing people … some famous, others infamous, and then there are those who I consider to be ... More. (News - Culture) Views: – This feeling is indescribable. No, I take that back…it’s borderline magical. That’s how good it feels to be around this person. You can’t stop thinki ... More. (News - Culture) Views: – When most guys set out to impress a woman they do all the wrong things. Here are 10 ways you can set yourself apart from the 39 other lame guys she�s ... More. (News - Culture) Views: – I’ve spent the last few days thinking about us, so I began to write. The more I wrote, the closer I inched towards reaching a sincere understanding o ... More. (News - Culture) Views: – I’ve repeatedly expressed the importance of men learning how to express themselves within the context of a relationship—but there are limits to that ... More. (News - Culture) Views: – Let’s face facts; money’s tight right now. With the economy contracting and the cost of living inflating more than Lil Kim’s lips, the financial land ... More. (News - Culture) Views: – “What’s up with you? I saw your new profile pic, and you’re looking damned good.” “The men out in Phoenix are lucky … I need to spend my vacation out ... More. (News - Culture) Views: – Life has been busy … but I’m sure you knew that already. In fact, it’s been so busy that I honestly can’t remember the last time I sat down and reall ... More. (News - Culture) Views: – I will never forget her name. It was Jai Miller*. In my mind, she was the perfect woman: beautiful, smart, funny … in short, she epitomized the proto ... More. (News - Entertainment) Views: – Attention ladies and gents: I felt compelled to share the following relationship public service announcement. There’s currently an important phrase t ... More. (News - Culture) Views: – No matter how much you love a person, bad days are sure to come. They’re simply unavoidable. Sometimes, we can place unrealistic expectations on our ... More. (News - Music) Views: – Periodically, I�m going to share with you some red flag behavior that should make you think twice about diving into deeper relational waters with a p ... More. (News - Entertainment) Views: – I’ve often wondered why we habitually tell people what they want to hear, instead of just practicing a little honesty. Now, I’m in no way speaking as ... More. (News - Culture) Views: – I love you … but of course, you already know this. What you might not know is that I often struggle to discover new ways to express how much I care. ... More. (News - Culture) Views: – “The more I get to know you, the more my heart aches to find new ways to express its devotion to you.” At some point in time, I’m sure we’ve all shar ... More. (News - Culture) Views: – Woke up this morning thinking about a conversation I had yesterday. It took place on an evening flight to New York, when I happened to sit next to a ... More. (News - Entertainment) Views: – As I sat here getting my daily fill of SportsCenter, the stream of last night’s highlights was interrupted by a breaking news alert: Bengals wide rec ... More. (News - Culture) Views: – I ran across an interesting feature today which breaks down an all-too powerful tool in the increasingly technology-driven world of love and relation ... More. (News - Culture) Views: – I was raised to fear nothing but God … it didn’t matter what it was—man, woman, lion, bear, or J-Lo singing acapella—my mother and father instilled i ... More. (News - Entertainment) Views: – If you've ever tried to find love on the internet, then you have to be very aware of the games that people play when describing themselves. Check ou ... More. (News - Offbeat) Views: – She hit a nerve. I’m not precisely sure of the exact moment of contact, but somehow, someway she managed to strike a chord deep within me. I’m intrig ... More. (News - Culture) Views: – ’ve been sitting here for the past 30 minutes trying to remember the last time I approached a woman using a pick up line. The concept seems so foreig ... More. (News - Culture) Views: – I currently reside in Atlanta, and according to the women here, I’ve literally stumbled upon a utopian society for single men. As far as they’re conc ... More. (News - Culture) Views: – Dear Fly Guy, Last week I got frustrated with my boyfriend and sent him a long email stating I no longer wanted to be with him. I also told him that ... More. (News - Culture) Views: – Hey there Fly Guy,I know I should know the answer to this question, but my new guy friend said that I was a sweet woman with substance. What the hell ... More. (News - Culture) Views: – I can vividly remember the acute nausea as it churned at the pit of my stomach. Was this the after effects of that macaroni surprise I cooked earlier ... More. (News - Entertainment) Views: – So I’m on the road traveling again, and my current stop finds me in Detroit. With the temperature teetering between “freezing” and “you’ve got to be ... More. (News - Culture) Views: – A large majority of my life has been spent working to gain a reasonably sound understanding of the opposite sex. If you noticed, I specifically used ... More. (News - Culture) Views: – I was randomly surfing the net today when I came across this passionate note on Facebook. The subject was so compelling that I just had to share it w ... More. (News - Offbeat) Views: – I apologize for being M.I.A. the past two days, but I'm officially back. Sometimes when I'm on the road, it gets hard to really sit down and connec ... More. (News - Culture) Views: – If time possesses the ability to heal all wounds, then it should also be capable of giving me the perspective I need to move on in the aftermath of y ... More. (News - Culture) Views: – Next week, I’ll be diving headfirst into my annual cheating series. So as we prepare to dissect the mindset of a cheater, I thought I’d get the ball ... More. (News - Entertainment) Views:
I’m of the sincere belief that some children never had a chance from birth … and it’s all a product of bad parenting. So when a former love cheated o ... More. (News - Entertainment) Views: – The world would be lost without the gift of expression … well, at least the world that I occupy. That’s why I’ve always worked hard to highlight thos ... More. (News - Culture) Views: – Is it really possible for one celebrity couple to be hotter than the next? Well that’s today’s million dollar question. When it comes to some of toda ... More. (News - Entertainment) Views: – Let me be candid for a moment: while lasting love is the ultimate end goal to your relationship journey, there are a few things that you’ll have to g ... More. (News - Culture) Views: – Before I begin, there’s one thing that I need to make perfectly clear. My Fly Guy column has never been, nor will it ever be about sex. However, I ca ... More. (News - Culture) Views: – Boris Kodjoe stopped by Fly Guy Headquarters to reinforce a tip that I’ve been stressing for quite some time now: Romance takes place in the kitchen. ... More. (News - Entertainment) Views: – “It’s seems ironic that most of us value relationships but don’t expend the energy to invest in them fully.” ~Kerry Shook … I couldn’t have said it b ... More. (News - Culture) Views: – I can’t get enough of old school love songs from the 90’s—well, old school for me that is. I’m sure there’s some of you that claim the Temptations as ... More. (News - Music) Views: – Surfing the net definitely has its privileges. I just stumbled across this goldmine, and had to share. The following list is a top secret decoder for ... More. (News - Offbeat) Views: – A broken heart. Many have been afflicted, but few actually understand any clear cut path to recovery. Such an approach or lack thereof often leads to ... More. (News - Culture) Views: – I love you. At some point, we all dream of having those three words lavished upon us by a significant other. But what happens when you start dating s ... More. (News - Entertainment) Views: – What's Up Fly Guy, Before I get into the question at hand, let me put some background information out there. I'm a 24 year old, single black man in ... More. (News - Culture) Views: – As we head into the weekend, I thought I’d give you a special video edition of our audio love segment. Here are a few songs that articulate a wide ra ... More. (News - Music) Views: – “I think we should spend some time apart.”As the words left her mouth, I could literally feel the life being sucked out of my body. Sir Isaac Newton ... More. (News - Culture) Views: – I’m a fan of unconditional love … that’s just the way I choose to look at life. While others may hand you a long list of reasons to leave someone whe ... More. (News - Entertainment) Views: – Yesterday, I wrote a feature detailing 5 Reasons to Admit You Cheated. Judging from the responses I received in my email box, the sentiment on the ma ... More. (News - Culture) Views: – I can still hear my father’s voice as he tapped into his inner Mr. Miyagi, while grooming me into the karate kid that I am today. I appreciated that ... More. (News - Culture) Views: – It’s time for me to share my Fly Guy dating tip for this weekend. Since the weather has warmed up, you should also see a dramatic increase in your ci ... More. (News - Culture) Views: – From Beyonce and Jay-Z to Barack and Michelle Obama, all couples are sure to face days when their relationship isn�t chock full of rainbows, unicorns ... More. (News - Culture) Views: – Another week begins, and similar to when we left on Friday, there are still so many questions in the world of love and relationships left unanswered. ... More. (News - Culture) Views: – I told her she was beautiful… She in turn responded, “thank you…that means a lot coming from a man that truly understands the word beautiful.” She wa ... More. (News - Culture) Views: – I woke up this morning feeling an overwhelming sense of contentment. What’s interesting is that I honestly had no idea where it was coming from. Was ... More. (News - Culture) Views: – She told me that all men lie. And while her words initially caught me off guard, I’m sure there are countless women who share a similar mindset. But ... More. (News - Culture) Views: – Every now and then, I have thoughts that I really want to share but that don’t necessarily deserve a post of their own. So I decided to start placing ... More. (News - Culture) Views: – I ran across a feature today that I wanted to share. In it, the piece describes 50 things that women wish men knew. After reading the list, I was a b ... More. (News - Entertainment) Views: – I’m not going to belabor the points in this article for two reasons: For starters, the average intelligent woman knows that it isn’t wise to have a b ... More. (News - Culture) Views: | Share Buttons | About | Terms of Use | Privacy Policy | Contact
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